April 22, 2011

friday.




I got the call late Wednesday night.

"Are you going to go see Papa tomorrow?" my younger sister said through audible tears.

I'm not quite sure why the call came as a surprise, after all, my grandfather is 99 years old. For most of his life he has been healthy and strong, both body and mind. But, a couple of months ago he fell ill and now it seems he's taken a turn for the worse and his body can no longer endure.

So, yesterday I cancelled my plans, made arrangements for the kids, and went to see my Papa. When I arrived, I was blessed with the opportunity to catch him in a moment of wakefulness. I was able to hold his hand, offer him some comfort, kiss his cheek and tell him how much I loved him. What a sweet gift I was given.

Today, Christians throughout the world commemorate the death of Jesus Christ by remembering the sacrifice, suffering, and sorrow of that day.

"On that Friday the Savior of mankind was humiliated and bruised, abused and reviled. It was a Friday filled with devastating, consuming sorrow that gnawed at the souls of those who loved and honored the Son of God. 
I think that of all the days since the beginning of this world’s history, that Friday was the darkest. 
But the doom of that day did not endure. 
The despair did not linger because on Sunday, the resurrected Lord burst the bonds of death. He ascended from the grave and appeared as the Savior of all mankind. 
Each of us will have our own Fridays—those days when the universe itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about us in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems we can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays. 
I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death—Sunday will come. In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come. 
No matter our desperation, no matter our grief, Sunday will come." 
--Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, Sunday Will Come

Although the passing of my grandfather is sorrowful, I find comfort in the messages of this Easter season. There is peace in the truthfulness of the gospel, hope in the knowledge that He lives, and reassurance in the Resurrection.

I know that my Redeemer lives.

I know that on the third day He rose from the tomb triumphant over death.

I know that because of His life and eternal sacrifice, one day, I will see my grandfather again--perfect and whole.

So, although this Friday is shadowed in grief, there is light.

For I know Sunday will come.

'In this life or the next, Sunday will come.'



For more Easter messages, see here.

6 comments:

Emily said...

I'm so sorry about your loss, Lynette. You quoted my favorite talk in the whole world. It gives me hope and offers peace and comfort every time I read it. I hope you have some time to be with family this Easter. And wow, 99 years! That is amazing. I bet he had a very cool life. So glad you got to see him one last time.

cheryl said...

This is beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing. My thoughts are with you. I'm so sorry for your loss but so glad you were able to see your Papa. That is a gift.

Jill said...

a beautiful tribute and testimony...thinking of you! xo

Mark Beckstrom said...

I love your testimony. I'm glad you love your grandfather. Our love to you and your mom's family.

Heidi said...

So sorry to hear about your Papa. Thanks for sharing your beautiful words and feelings. Love you!

Angie said...

I'm sorry I missed this post. Lynette, I'm sorry for your loss. What a gift it was to see your Papa one last time to say hello. It sounds like a sweet moment you will always remember.

Thank you for sharing the beautiful quote and your testimony. They were both truly inspired and touching.